On Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is everyone’s holiday. In every family there are traditions that bring everyone to the table. Set around special place settings are all the foods, aromas, flower arrangements, and goodies that family and friends expect. The satisfying meal arouses...

Outrage and then Action

Don’t be fooled. The attacks on Jews in Amsterdam were not spontaneous or uncalculated. They were organized and precise. In Amsterdam, WhatsApp was used to coordinate with Arab taxi drivers and antisemites throughout the city to identify and locate Israelis and other...

On the Eve of Election Day 2024

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the...

Be Like Noah

Contrasts help us see differences. In this week’s Torah portion about Noah, the first verse reveals a contrast that identifies Noah as more than just the man who built an ark and saved living creatures. The Torah portion opens with these words, “Noah was a righteous...

“Before We Can Dance Again”

This past week, the Jewish world celebrated Simchat Torah, “the joy of Torah.” It marks the renewal of the Torah reading cycle. On the holiday, we end the Torah reading with the last words of Deuteronomy (Devarim) and begin again with the words of Genesis...

Preparing for Yom Kippur

Yom Kippur is coming this weekend on Shabbat. It’s the conclusion of the Ten Days of Repentance, but just the beginning of all our hopes that the New Year will unfold with new promises to contribute to its strength and peace. A longstanding tradition is the Yom Kippur...

Days Away from the New Year 5785

Anticipation of the Jewish New Year also brings back memories. Without equivocation, we always wished each other Shanah Tovah, a good year, a sweet year, good health, and peace. This New Year, we’ll begin with the same good wishes between us, but with greater earnest...

When Six More Jewish Souls are Taken

Sometimes it hits so hard that you can’t breathe or stand up straight without shaking. The execution-style murders of six Israeli hostages held by Hamas terrorists was more than anyone could bear. By anyone, I don’t mean people who still use words like...

A Rabbi and a Pope Enter the Room

After a full week in Rome, Italy, I just returned on September 1st. I wouldn’t have been there except for a very special invitation. Some weeks ago, the organizers of TMO (The Metropolitan Organization), a region of IAF (Industrial Area Foundation), of which...

School Zones: Be Prepared

All the signs are there that school has begun. It’s not just the flashing School Zone signs reminding us to slow down for students; it’s also the heavy traffic in the morning and afternoon, and the social media posts announcing everyone’s arrival on campus and into...

Love Israel

This past week, the Jewish observance of Tisha B’Av, or 9th of Av, was held in some Jewish communities. The date recalls days of destructions in Jewish history, beginning with the ruin of the Temple in Jerusalem by the Babylonians in 586 BCE. As history records it,...

Our Best Days

In Judaism, everything is paired. There’s joy and sorrow, life and death, health and sickness. These pairings provide a worldview that can never be all joy nor all despairing. That’s a good thing. It relieves us of having to long for Disneyland experiences every day,...

Summer is for Memories

My summer vacation is now part of special memories. Last June, I was mentally and physically ready for a rest and diversion from a full and meaningful year. My time away began with a week devoted to solitude to read and write. Though I love the company of family and...

With Hope for Renewed Peace

The assassination attempt on former President Trump was a horrific act in a tense political environment. It terrified the nation. It rattled our civil society. Trump survived, shaken, with a bloodied ear. Tragically, the attack took the life of a father of two...

Jewish Patriotism

The American flag is waving this week. Americans are gathering with family and friends for familiar July 4th celebrations to honor hard-won independence from British rule. Our democracy was birthed from hopes, dreams, and long-fought battles to emerge into a world of...

The Media War

In this week’s Torah portion, Sh’lach-lecha, in the book of Numbers, Joshua and Caleb return from scouting out the Promised Land and report to the Israelites what they found there. Unlike other scouts from other tribes, Joshua and Caleb were realistic and hopeful. The...

Pray With all Your Heart

One of the most impactful Biblical passages is found in this week’s Torah portion in Numbers 12. It involves a conflict between Moses, Miriam, and Aaron. Beginning with Miriam and Aaron who speak against their brother “concerning the Cushite wife he had taken,” they...

Four Hostages Freed

Four hostages rescued. Many people have noted that they were not released; rather, they were rescued. And though the lives of terrorists and complicit Palestinians were lost in the dangerous operation, it’s a risk they bear when hostages, who are still alive, are,...

When Binary Meant Something

Will I turn my back on Israel? Never! The news from Rafah is bad, but the truth is worse. Immediate Past Editor-in-Chief of The Jerusalem Post, Avi Mayer, posted on Facebook and X (formerly Twitter) what we are learning now to be true: “The Israeli airstrike that...

It’s Not Too Much To Ask

Israel will always matter to us. But it’s been difficult for family and friends to talk about Israel, lately. It was true last year when we debated judicial reform. It’s truer now when the debate is existential. Shortly after October 7th, the Jewish world drew close...

As We Mourn

Beth Israel emails are important to read, not just because one of them is my blog. They tell important stories about the life of our congregation. In one of those emails is news of Temple members who have gone from life. Their funerals or memorial services are...

A Fence Around the Torah

It was not supposed to happen this way. I held off for as long as I possibly could. A Mishnah teaches, “Don’t separate yourself from the community.” Only in community can we find what we need to support life and well-being that depends on healthcare, education,...

As Passover Nears

Dear Friends, This past weekend, the wave of firepower aimed at Israel from Iran sent Israelis to their safe rooms. The rest of us held our breath and sent texts of support. After the long night, the results were benign compared to what they could have been. We’re...

A World Worthy of our Children

Young couples fall in love and plan for marriage, eventually. Along the way, they talk about being parents. Typically, they do imagine themselves as parents. Their meetings with the rabbi to prepare for the wedding and married life includes talk about their roles as...

A World of Awe

On April 8, 2024, a total solar eclipse will occur. It will be observed around the world and notably in Texas. Special glasses and other safe means to view it are being prepared. Schools are teaching important lessons about astronomy and physics. What will Judaism...

How to Live a Good Life

I don’t know anyone who enjoys being commanded. Maybe it’s customary in the military or in sports where sergeants and coaches bark (give) orders, but at home or in the workplace, being commanded can be authoritative and rude. And how about in a sacred...

“Be Happy, it’s ADAR!”

Be Happy, it’s ADAR! It’s Purim time, and Adar is the Hebrew month when we celebrate the holiday. When the month begins, we say, “When Adar enters, joy increases!” In history, Purim was a festive holiday that provided a place in the Jewish calendar for the Jewish...

Mending Broken Hearts

I’m home from a profound and emotional trip to Israel. From Monday to Thursday, February 26-29, this whirlwind trip was filled with intensity and purpose. Organized by Houston Jewish Federation and led by J2 Israel Tours, it was precisely what we needed to see and do,...

On My Way to Israel

On February 25th, I’ll board a familiar flight to Israel under unfamiliar circumstances. Rather than accompany first-timers to Israel for a life-changing experience, this trip will be mission-driven to bring support, comfort, and hope to Israeli families and friends....

For the Love of Peace

Since October 7th, we have tuned in to news that is difficult to watch, hear, and know. War is horrible and terror is the worst, because it violates international laws of warfare. It’s all too much. Nevertheless, we have a responsibility as Jews and Jewish allies to...

A Song and a Prayer

I grew up in a house where fluent Yiddish wasn’t spoken, but Yiddish words and expressions were used to say what couldn’t be said with the same intensity or cynicism in English. An odor was nothing compared to something farshtunken; a mischievous kid was one thing,...

War and Peace

The Torah portion called Beshallach (Exodus 13:17ff) includes the “Song of the Sea,” in Hebrew Shirat Hayam (Exodus 15ff). It’s more than a song or poem, it’s a victory song. The Israelites sang it and Miriam led the women in dancing in tribute to God for redeeming...

Diasporism

If you can pronounce it, you’ll know that the root of “diasporism” is “diaspora.” By definition, it’s any place where Jews made their homes outside of Israel. Since the chaos surrounding judicial reform in Israel, and the horrifying events and their aftermath of...

Justice and Compassion

The last verses of Torah exalt Moses: Never again did there arise in Israel a prophet like Moses whom God singled out (Deuteronomy 34:10). Moses’s stature is well-known, but his beginnings were humble. Left in a basket in the Nile, baby Moses was rescued and brought...

Be Strong and of Good Courage

In a paper calendar book, I turned the page to find the secular New Year 2024. Accidentally, I took hold of too many pages and opened to 2025. If only, right? The tragedy that began on October 7th in Israel, and the American presidential election that looms in the...

Rebuilding their Jewish Homes

Chanukah is ending but not without kindling in us what we need to remember about being Jewish. Lighting the menorah began in history as an act of courage and renewal following the defeat of the Syrian Greeks by the Hasmoneans. Outnumbered, Judah Maccabee and his small...

Chanukah, O Hanukkah

No matter how it’s spelled, Chanukah is a minor Jewish holiday that means “dedication.” It’s minor, because it’s not a pilgrimage holiday that obligated Jews, in ancient times, to arrive in Jerusalem and offer sacrifices. Though a minor holiday, it has come to mean...

Chanukah Means Dedication

First light, Evening of December 7th Darkness is defeat and light is victory against our oppressors, persecutors, and contemporary antisemites in all their forms. “Light in the darkness” can be a meaningful metaphor, but it fails if it’s only a metaphor. Yes,...

Vertical Neighborhoods

After October 7th, I wrote about the fence that my Muslim neighbor and I had to fix between our houses when it broke and fell in a windstorm. It was an apt metaphor for the obvious brokenness and horror between Israel and Gaza. In a personal face-to-face conversation,...

It’s Your Birthright

Those who were able to attend the march in Washington, D.C., absorbed and digested more than they could have imagined. Throngs of people, some 290,000, plus leaders of our country with significant speeches, lifted up an historical message for our times. Perfectly...

A Blue and White Box

That blue and white box is still a vivid image in my memory. I’m sure it is in yours, too. That blue and white box, a “pushke,” in Yiddish, symbolized a community-wide effort to engage everyone in Israel’s well-being, strength, and continuity. It had a Jewish star on...

To Learn & To Teach About Israel

Don’t drink from a fire hose. It’s not just good sense, it’s also a good metaphor. We can’t extinguish the burning fire of misinformation, lack of Jewish education, or personal unpreparedness around Israel’s crisis in one great sermon, marvelous podcast, or viral...

From Lawlessness to Peace

In last week’s Torah portion, Noah, we read about the flood that came after God saw that the earth was filled with “lawlessness.” In Torah, the word “lawlessness” is a single Hebrew word, “Hamas.” That’s right. In Torah, hamas caused God to bring a terrible flood in...

We Built a Fence and a Friendship

In the Middle East, there is no more room for hate and no path to peace through vengeance. Though Houston is more than 7000 miles away from Israel and Gaza, Houston is a city where 145 languages are spoken and many more than a few religions are observed and...

From the Beginning, Again

There is no justification. For the attack on Israel by Hamas terrorists there is no justification. It begins with the fact that in 2005, despite many Israelis who wanted to remain in Gaza, where they had homes, synagogues, schools, and businesses, then PM Ariel Sharon...

Bound as One: A Rally for Israel

Sukkot is one of my favorite holidays. It’s part of the season called Z’man Simchateinu, the “Season of our Joy.” Sukkot is purposely joyful to follow Yom Kippur’s solemn mood. In Leviticus 23:40ff, we learn to spend time in a sukkah, take up the four species (etrog,...

In the New Year 5784

On Rosh Hashanah, we’ll greet each other with wishes for a Happy New Year. It’s a time filled with hopeful expectations that a new beginning will be fresh and sweet. Often times, the New Year is, indeed, fresh and sweet. It’s as our rabbis taught, “Live each day as if...

You Are SO Going To Like This

At the end of a long day, I watched “You Are SO Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah,” the new movie starring Adam Sandler, Idina Menzel, among other greats. I settled into my chair with skepticism. Would this be another movie to lay on the pile of caricatures in Jewish life...

An Ethical Will

During this month of Elul, leading up to the High Holy Days, which begin on the first day of Tishrei, thus the New Year, we read from the fifth book of the Torah, in Deuteronomy. There we find Moses’s final words and instructions to the Israelites. They are about to...

God’s Love

The Hebrew month of Elul begins this week. You might be asking yourself, “Is that when the weather turns cooler?” It’s unlikely, but it is the month that precedes Tishrei, the first day of which is Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year 5784. And, you know well that from...